15 Ways To Become A Better Person
Self-improvement should be a goal that you always work on.
But people find it’s hard to discover what to improve, or it’s tough to motivate yourself to work towards positive change. So here are some points which may help you in your goal of becoming a better person...
1. COMPLIMENT YOURSELF
Love yourself. It is important to stay positive as your emotions can be contagious to those who are around you. Each day give some time to compliment your own self about little things like your hair, your achievements whether big or small. Enjoy small things in life.
2. LET GO OF ANGER
To live a peaceful life one should have control over his/her emotions. Anger is a normal emotion like other emotions but having a control on anger is essential as anger can cause many problems like heart disease, digestion problem, difficulty in sleeping and many more. Anger can be controlled by various things such as praying, writing your feelings in a dairy or by doing meditation.
3. PRACTICE FORGIVENESS
Holding a grudge doesn't make you strong; it makes you better.
Forgiving doesn't make you weak, it set you free. We should forgive and let go and after that should meditate and thanks for the lesson that u learned from your suffering.
4. BE HONEST AND DIRECT
Being honest is always a great decision as honesty never puts you in trouble. Many relations are destroyed due to lies and misunderstanding thus if a person always speaks the truth then there are more chance of better understanding.
5. DON'T MAKE EXCUSES
Making excuses about why things happen is just not right because you do this when you are not happy with your present situation. A person should always be happy in whatever he got and should appreciate it. An individual must accept his/her mistakes and downfalls.
6. BE HELPFUL
Helping others is a good way to maintain a healthy relation with people around you.
Whenever you help someone you may feel good about yourself as you helped someone in their need. Try to help as many people as you can and helping other doesn't mean a big help like financial or something like that but help like giving your seat to an elder.
7. LISTEN TO OTHERS
Being a good listener can change your life in a positive manner.
As it is said that we should only react after listening the matter completely. Most importantly one should not listen with the intent to reply but listen with the intent to understand.
8. ACT LOCALLY
Think globally and act locally. By doing this you can understand the things which are around you, you understand people well. A person should be always down to earth in order to live a realistic life.
9. BE YOURSELF
Being yourself is everything. Don't change so that people may like you, be yourself and the right people will love the real you. You get only one life then why to waste it being someone else, be yourself and enjoy you life by being yourself.
10. ALWAYS BE POLITE
The act of kindness can make things alright. By being polite you can be admired by all the people around you. A person beauty is in his tongue thus being polite and grateful will make people help you and be good to you.
11. BE RESPECTFUL
Respect others feelings even when it doesn't mean anything to you but it can mean everything to someone.
Everyone want respect, respect is a two way thing when you respect someone, the person respects you back.
12. BE OPEN TO CHANGE
Life is all about changes. Progress is impossible without change and those who cannot changes their mind cannot change anything. Changes allow you to grow, it develops confidence, self-esteem and high functioning of brain.
13. EDUCATE YOURSELF
Being aware about different culture, different people and their way of living, their lifestyle can make you more well-rounded person. information bring you choices and choices brings power. Never remain in the dark of ignorance.
14. DON'T SHOW EMPTY HANDED
Never go to a dinner or party empty handed, take some sort to gift of flowers for them. This will show that you appreciate their invitation.
15. SURPRISE PEOPLE
How good it feels when a loved one smile because of you. Surprise people and let them know how you feel about them, what is their place in your life and where do they stand for you.
Every goal can be achieved but you need to have patience as everything takes time. I hope this points may help in achieving your goal.